Private venue · Totnes

Secrets for Sharing, Totnes

Secrets for Sharing is a monthly couples-focused party at a private country house near Littlehempston, on the edge of Totnes. It's a full night out: sauna, steam room, hot tub, a dance room, cinema, finger buffet and plenty of play spaces – and you can stay overnight for free. Single men aren't admitted.

Who it's for
Couples · Single women
Drinks
Licensed bar
Stay over
Rooms available
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Why go

  • Monthly party on the third Saturday
  • Sauna, steam room, hot tub and massage area
  • Licensed bar and finger buffet
  • Free overnight stay

When to go

Third Saturday of the month
Doors 8pm, running through the night

Times and events change, so check the venue's own calendar before you travel.

Before your first visit

  1. 1Reserve by phone or email and pay on arrival – no membership needed.
  2. 2Couples and single women only.
  3. 3Men: smart casual. Women: sexy and stylish.
  4. 4Let them know if you'd like to stay over.

Inside the venue

Pool, spa & sauna

  • Sauna
  • Steam room
  • Hot tub

Play spaces

  • Communal playroom
  • Grope room
  • Love-swing room
  • Private lockable themed rooms

Bar & social

  • Licensed bar
  • Massage area
  • Chill-out lounges
  • Dance room with pole
  • Cinema room
  • Finger buffet

Practical

  • Showers with towels and lockers
  • Covered heated outdoor decking / smoking area
  • On-site parking

Getting there

Totnes (Littlehempston) (TQ9 6NF). The exact address is only shared with booked guests.

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Meet people before you go

Lots of couples and singles like to chat before a club night, so the first visit isn't with strangers. Every Pineapple Lifestyle member is checked by a real person, so you can find people near Totnes and plan to meet up at events.

Updated October 2026. Pineapple Lifestyle isn't connected to Secrets for Sharing. Run this venue or spotted something out of date? Email [email protected].

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